My favorite biblical image of a minister is that of being a shepherd. Peter referred to the high calling of this relationship in I Peter 5:2-4 when he said, Shepherd the flock of God which is among you, serving as overseers, not by compulsion but willingly, not for dishonest gain but eagerly; 3 nor as being lords over those entrusted to you, but being examples to the flock; 4 and when the Chief Shepherd appears, you will receive the crown of glory that does not fade away.
I always think of this role as being very near to the heart of the Savior. Maybe it’s because Jesus referred to Himself as a Shepherd and God’s Word has a lot to say on the subject of faithful and unfaithful shepherds (see Jeremiah). For the past 19 years, it has been my privilege to serve as the shepherd (pastor) with our wonderful church family at Faith. I’ve learned so much about the role as a result of these dear people loving me and allowing me to learn along the way. It has also been an honor to serve alongside some incredible men who helped me shepherd the church. I also love to coach young men who are training or just beginning their role as shepherds
Here are a few principles that I believe are essential for being a faithful shepherd:
- Shepherds ought to smell like sheep. There are no shortcuts in this role – you have to spend time with people and get to know them on a personal level. Sometimes it can get messy.
- Shepherds ought to model their message. Sheep can spot an impostor fast. They deserve an authentic role model who practices what he preaches to others.
- Shepherds must always love as they lead. It takes time to earn the respect of sheep – especially if they have been wounded in the past. Once they know you love them – really, really love them – they will follow you gladly.
- Shepherds must never intentionally do harm to the flock. The local church is very fragile; people don’t have to attend, give, or serve. If they know they are safe, they will be much more likely to be healthy in all areas.
- Shepherds should never forget that every sheep is valuable. Don’t give up too easily on that member that seems to be difficult – sometimes it takes more time to see the results of good shepherding.
- Shepherds are ultimately accountable to the Chief Shepherd. The sheep don’t belong to us; we are merely servant leaders who will be held responsible for how well we lead.
- Shepherds must stay long enough to enjoy the journey. I’m convinced that being a shepherd is the greatest work in the world. Sharing life with a church family has both tears and joy, but some will miss the beauty in the work because they leave for greener pastures too soon.